Rediscovering Personal Care: A Journey of Self-Reflection

Vallabhaneni Sree Lasya
3 min readJun 23, 2022


Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional or therapist. The following reflections are based solely on my personal experiences and opinions.

In today’s digital age, social media platforms inundate us with countless posts about personal care. Pedicures, manicures, and fleeting trends like acupuncture dominate our feeds. I, too, used to believe in these trends, hoping they would bring me happiness and relaxation. Yet, as I sat there, contemplating the true essence of “personal” care, I realized they often left me feeling anxious whenever an expensive nail polish chipped off.

It was time for me to delve deeper and redefine what personal care truly meant to me.

I started by pondering the activities that genuinely brought me joy. Going for leisurely walks with my family, friends, or even on my own was one such activity. The simplicity of connecting with nature and engaging in meaningful conversations became invaluable to me.

I also recognized the importance of scheduling a yearly physical check-up. Taking the time to understand and address any potential health concerns became an integral part of my self-care routine. It allowed me to gain insights into my body’s well-being and make informed decisions about my health.

Long showers, where I could luxuriate without the pressures of time constraints, became another cherished aspect of my personal care routine. The ability to indulge in self-pampering without feeling rushed added a sense of tranquility to my daily life.

Furthermore, my love for fruits became a cornerstone of my self-care practices. I learned to embrace the nourishment they provided and to savor their vibrant flavors. No longer did I restrict myself; I simply welcomed every fruit with open arms.

Preparing meals that truly delighted my taste buds also became an act of personal care. Free from the constraints of time, I could create dishes that catered to my preferences. The process of cooking and relishing these meals became a mindful and enjoyable experience.

And what about leisure time? I found solace in watching movies, particularly with a bowl of caramel popcorn by my side. Escaping into captivating stories and treating myself to a delectable snack allowed me to unwind and recharge.


Unplugging from the digital world became an essential part of my self-care journey. By refraining from constantly checking my laptop or phone, or being bound by the demands of an electronic watch, I could break free from the anxieties that accompanied the modern age. It provided a much-needed respite, enabling me to focus on being present in the moment.

Driving without the aid of maps or a strict itinerary became a liberating experience. It allowed me to explore new routes and embrace spontaneity, unleashing a sense of adventure within me.

In conclusion, I realized that personal care should be deeply personal, not influenced by the barrage of information from our Google search history, the algorithms on Instagram, or the advertisements from our followers. Instead, it should stem from introspection and a genuine understanding of what truly brings us joy and relaxation.

So, I encourage you to take a moment, sit down, and reflect on what activities bring you happiness and peace. Then, make it a priority to set aside a day dedicated solely to your well-being. Embrace your unique definition of personal care, free from external influences, and embark on a journey of self-nurturing and self-discovery. You deserve it.

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Vallabhaneni Sree Lasya

Software Engineer who enjoys writing, cooking, eating, travelling, working, maturing in all aspects of life :)